Thursday, February 25, 2010

Grabby Goose

Yesterday I left the big kids with a babysitter and took the Goose in for her 6-month "wellness" check-up at the pediatrician's office. Since the staff was were running late, I had the opportunity for some uninterrupted one-on-one time with our sweet girl (the 'uninterrupted' part being quite a rarity), which ended up being delightful. The child, at her current stage, is grabbiness personified - groping for my necklace, the phone on the doctor's office wall, crinkling and re-crinkling the disposable paper on the doctor's table till it was in shreds. The sound delighted her.

She is turning into such a big girl! Four teeth have come in over the past month, a veritable explosion of teeth (pictured). The growing up is happening fast now; she's sitting up, supported, in a wobbly fashion now and beginning to rock back and forth on her knees. She may be crawling two months from now! Better get myself mentally ready for that.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Fence and food

HF built a semi-permanent fence yesterday in an effort to ensure that Angus' experience in the chicken coop this week does not repeat itself. It's an ingenious creation I must say, in that Red and Feathers can come and go easily but it look pretty dog-proof. The fence is mounted to large flat posts that hold it vertical and the weight and construction of the structure make it seemingly impossible for a dog to topple (note I say seemingly). Time will tell I guess!

On Friday we attempted to feed miss Goose her first helping of big-kid food in the form of an applesauce-cereal mixture. The monkey was extremely enthusiastic about the venture and insistent that we all cheer for her as she took her first bite - very sweet really, the cheerleading big brother. Goose was not at all excited about the stuff and predictably gagged up her first bite as we all looked on and assessed the situation. A humorous milestone.

Friday, February 19, 2010

Aerial outing

The monkey had his last week of preschool last week, which was not how we wished it but as it had to be. In mid-December he became best friends with the one boy in his 10-kid class who was defiant and unruly (after four months of simply observing the boy) and immediately displaying major behavior and attitude problems at home. The two were inseparable so every minute Monkey spent at school was time in which he was absorbing this boy's behavior. HF and I spent weeks trying to work through this with him and modifying some of our home life to accommodate his difficulty in reconciling his home and preschool lives; we met with the teacher and director. We tried hard to make it work and salvage things. But ultimately we felt like we were beating our head against the wall while we watched our son turn into a disruptive and uncooperative child. We made the hard decision to pull him from preschool and re-arrange our spring as best as we could to spin it as a positive. He has handled the transition fairly well, and a week after his last day we're beginning to once again see the pleasant and responsive boy we so enjoy.

Now several times a month I'm taking the big kids on an outing to do fun things while Goose stays home with a babysitter. The seal sanctuary was our first such venture; yesterday we went to a nearby small airport to watch the planes take off and land. There's a small, sweet cafe alongside the runway where we ate a late breakfast together that delighted the kids. It was a hit so I'm sure we'll be back!

Thursday, February 18, 2010

Angus causes alarm

Our dog has nearly as many adventures as the book hero, Harry the Dirty Dog. He had major surgery on his ACL. He's flown solo cross country twice (the second time was a major inconvenience for his sending aunt and uncle). He had a terrible case of mange. Then this week though, we had a new one: Angus almost ate himself to death.

How, you ask? Well, he got into the chicken coop - not his first time. The yard is small and his will to enter and eat are far greater than the efficacy of the makeshift barrier erected to prevent him from doing so. Short-lived bouts of diarrhea and vomiting are the usual result of this mishap. Yesterday while I was dealing with a billing error by our homeowners' insurance resulting in misdirected funds and resulting headaches, he got into the chicken coop and ate to his hearts' content. Oh dear.

Due to past experience, I thought little of it and was, as I banished him to his kennel, simply annoyed - at him and myself. Several hours later however when I let him out to the yard, I became alarmed. He was trembling badly and having trouble standing up. After he vomited he seemed no better; I was afraid he might faint. I called our neighbor who's also our vet and learned it could be gastric dilation - potentially fatal. I patched together childcare and rushed him to the emergency vet (I could barely get him into the van) and was met by HF a few minutes later. A stressful afternoon for all of us to say the least. Thankfully he is home now, after spending 24 hrs in the clinic, and doing fine. It was not gastric dilation but rather a toxic neurological reaction to ingested mold. Dear me. He needs follow-up tests to see if his liver is functioning OK, which we'll see to tomorrow.

$1200 later, I'm still slightly in shock. Enormously thankful that Angus is ok but amazed at the situation and the cost and the craziness of life sometimes...

Monday, February 15, 2010

Water wader

We went up to our favorite spot in the mountains this morning as HF has the day off for President's Day. It was the Goose's first time there (not counting the memorable morning when our hike there caused my water to break, the day after which she was born). She did very well riding on her daddy's back in the pack and even fell asleep on the return hike.

Rock climbing, stone-throwing, and learning about tracks from Expert Dad (as shown in photo above) were big activities on the hike. The two river crossings were quite high due to quite a lot of rain - for these parts! - over the past three weeks. Roo was eager to take off her sock, roll up her pants, and go wading in the river for as long as humanly possible... nevermind the fact that the water was ice cold and her accompanying daddy was amazed that it didn't bother her. Likewise the pebbles on the bottom which her brother disliked rolling under his feet. He spent about 3 minutes wading - less than a third the amount of time that she did! So it emerges that our Roo, along with her Angus her canine counterpart, of course, are the adventurous ones in the family...!

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Big weekend for baby!

Rounding the corner on six months, the Goose is becoming less infant-like and more of a little person. This weekend she accompanied the gang on two big-kid-style adventures, surely a red letter weekend for our wee one. We are members, briefly, of the local YMCA while they’re running a winter special and as such are taking Monkey and Roo to the pool as often as we can for swimming practice. We’ve been taking them one-on-one but decided to brave a Whole Family Venture on Saturday afternoon. Monkey can float fairly well with a noodle tied around him, so HF held the baby while overseeing his noodle-buoyed antics. I was paired with Roo who has acquired some newfound poolside chutzpah and enjoys dunking her head underwater from time to time when you least expect it. She is much bolder in the water than her big brother was at that age (but then again, she was born in the water…)

On Sunday we decided to take daddy up to survey the lovely spot we’d visited last week so he could see the seals for himself. We popped the Goose into the baby backpack for the first time as we set out for our little trek. She enjoyed herself and (apparently) the scenery, seals, and passing train as she made not a peep once the whole windy time. Such a good girl! Great Sunday outing and surely one we’ll repeat before long. Even Angus got to participate.

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Seal sanctuary

This morning I jumped into the van with Monkey and Roo and headed up the coastline to the Carpinteria Bluffs - leaving the goose with a trusty babysitter. I'd long heard about this place - what a scenic spot and perfect for young children - and it didn't disappoint. In addition to wide (and short!) trails atop bluffs overlooking the ocean, it also offered access to a protected beach where sea shells and other beach gems not found on most beaches near us. We collected shells, mussels, seaweed, and the like. We even got to see a baby seal up close that had somehow gotten separated from its family.

We broke for a picnic snack - always a hit with preschoolers - of bananas and crackers and then strolled along the bluffs till we hit a seal sanctuary, which was amazing. About 50 seals visible on the beaches below the bluff (protected) - lounging, swimming, sleeping. We glimpsed a brown pelican and one dolphin too! Very exciting. As we walked back we saw a para-glider riding overhead... And lo and behold, he landed right next to us! Very friendly guy too, who chatted all about the operation and said he'd para glided 210 days last year. (!) [Roo spent the whole car-ride home saying she wanted to para glide.]

As we walked back to the car, the Surfliner Amtrak train sped right by us along the walking path-- we stood along the fence waving as it went by. Most satisfactory for two young train-lovers. A red-letter outing if ever there was one! The spot is less than 20 minutes away, so you better believe we'll be going again.